I realized I had to change.
I am so grateful to share my story
I have come a long way to discover,
being me is enough.
My Previous Life
Always Perfect
Have you ever been afraid to let go of expectations and perfection and really live? Letting go of perfection was one of the toughest things I’ve ever done. For as long as I can remember I was anxious about what others thought of me. I was constantly trying to make everything perfect. Being everything for everyone around me was what I thought I had to do, anything else would be selfish. Putting others first and making them happy was supposed to make me happy, right?
Betraying Myself
So why did I feel so gray and numb, just trudging through to get to the next thing? Even during joyful times I wasn’t completely there, present to enjoy it. You know why? Because I was betraying myself. I was betraying who I was and what I wanted just to be accepted. Deep down I had this belief that if I was myself I wasn’t going to be enough, or that I would be way too much.
Toxic Relationships
Because I wouldn’t allow myself to be myself and live the life I wanted, I lost what I wanted. I then found myself in some very toxic, abusive relationships. This was a pattern of mine that was so unhealthy and very unsafe.
Role Model
The sun’s bright warm light comes into the window and hits my eyelids. As I wake up, laying in bed a voice so clear deep inside me says. You’re a mom, you’re a role model for your kids. And you would never allow anyone to treat your babies the way you’re being treated. This has got to stop, but it’s your choice.
I’ll never forget the morning I woke up and said “I am done!” It suddenly occurred to me that I would never sit quietly by and let my kids be treated the way I was being treated. I was their role model, that drove me to realize I had to change. So I went searching online, having no idea what I was even looking for, I found a life coach. The coaching I received opened up a new world of possibility with absolutely no judgement of where I was or how I got there. It was exactly what I had been searching for.
Giving Back
Coaching is a process that is truly life changing. It has allowed me to completely accept myself. All my wonderful abilities and all my quirky imperfections. Today my mission is to stand with those who feel anxious, overwhelmed and numb in all their efforts of perfection. I give my clients an extraordinary experience and new perspective. Helping them overcome fear to create the life they want.
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